You don’t create a life you love. You let the universe flow through you. At some point, you become that flow itself, as you become one with the universe. That lightness, the exhilarating lightness of that being, becomes your life. Life on the crest of the wave, that let’s you feel light, so very light that you feel an unexplainable, purely experiential oneness with the wave itself. That’s love and peace. That’s that smile on Buddha.